Antes de empezar, quiero dejar claro, que a pesar de que soy mujer, soy muy consciente del funcionamiento de la mente retorcida de un hombre. Yo crecí con los niños, y así, es algo natural para mí. Quiero hacer que las mujeres se dan cuenta que si bien puede ser malo para un hombre que mentir a una mujer, que ha incorporado a su primitiva razones masculina para él. Una vez que entienda esto, puede evitar las mentiras ocasionales. También puedes ver este artículo impresionante acerca de por qué los hombres mienten a sus novias.
¿Por qué mienten los hombres a las mujeres: Mentira N º 1; Pregunta: ¿En qué piensas?, Respuesta: Nada., Pregunta: En serio, ¿qué estás pensando?; MENTIRA: Hmmm, estoy pensando en ti!; Esto es una mentira muy común que los hombres dicen a las mujeres. encuesta reciente ha demostrado que hay hecho en tiempos en que los hombres no pensar en nada. Es debido a este fenómeno no se produce para las mujeres, que cuando un hombre dice realmente nada que no le creen. Es por eso que hacen algo, será más creíble la derecha?
Incluso si el hombre está pensando en algo, y no dice nada, mi sugerencia es que todas las mujeres a caer por el momento. Los hombres tienen una tendencia a mantener las cosas sólo en su mente hasta que esté un poco más ordenados. So, if you keep patience in the start and show them support, by just giving them a sweet smile and saying, Okay, they might come and discuss it with you, honestly, when they are ready.
Why Do Men Lie to Women : Lie No. 2; Question (on the phone): What are you doing?; Answer: Ummm, nothing just hanging out with friends.; Now, in case he is lying in this case, there is barely any way to know that unless you are spying on him. Either ways, if you really want him to tell you exactly where he is and what he is doing, you are probably asking too much from him. Let's face it, men are the protectors, they are built to be protective and not the most accountable. More so, dealing with a relationship, more specifically, dealing with women, is quite stressing for most men. Hence, if they just want to let loose and do nothing with their friends, let them. If you give him space when he needs it, he may even start opening up to you.
Why Do Men Lie to Women : Lie No. 3; Lie: I'll call you!; Now, this one is not always a lie. However, if they don't call you back for 3 days, it is possible that he is playing the 3 day charm on you, to get you longing for his call. In case he doesn't call you for more than 4 or 5 days, he is probably just not that into you. Now, you would ask, then why did he have to say that he will call me?. Well, the answer to that is that most men are accustomed to end the conversation in that manner. More so, he probably didn't want to hurt your feelings or seem rude. Hence, he said the most safe line in the guy's vocabulary. So, lighten up. If you still like him enough, take the initiative and call him. You are a strong, independent women!
Why Do Men Lie to Women?; The basic question is still unanswered. Men lie to women for a few specific reasons. Let's understand them. ; To get away with stuff: This is the reason why most women lie as well, right? It is often just easier to give a very simple and easy answer, as compared to saying the truth. Often, in saying the truth, confrontation is a given. As such, lying seems like a safer option. ; Fiction is more believable: This is very common as well. Women have a tendency to refuse to believe something that is just too easy to be true. Poor men, where do they go at such a time. If they say the truth, they will be constantly questioned. So, they make up a more complex lie, and the women tend to fall for it! ; For kicks: Yes, many men can afford to saying the truth. Like, We got bored working, so we went to the bar after office hours, hence I got late!. But no, men being boys, end up having no fun in saying that. Many men in such a situation, would enjoy making up and elaborate and detailed lies for their special someones. After all, all they pent up creativity has to be expressed somewhere, right? ; Half Truth: Often the man is not exactly lying, but he is not completely honest either. He will say the acceptable part of the truth and very conveniently forget about the unacceptable part of it. Like he may say that he took a friend out for shopping, but he may just omit the part where his friend is actually his ex-girlfriend. Let's face it, if you are his girlfriend or wife, you would at least frown at the concept. So, to keep you happy, he would simply not mention. ; To avoid work: These are the lies that men say to get away from chores or other errands. Like, if you need to have him pick up the laundry on the way back from office, he might suddenly have a very important meeting spring up. Or if he forgot to do it, he would make up a story saying that he remembered, but thought you would have already done it, instead. Silly, I know, but that is the way a man's mind works, at times. ; To make you feel better: Now, if you have cooked the worst meal ever, you would not want him to tell you that in the face right? More so, men have been trained to tell the woman the the food is good, come what may, if they care about her. So, in such a case his lie to you would be something like The food was amazing. I wouldn't mind this lie, would you? ; To hide the truth: These are the lies that you need to be wary of. Yes, all the lies that men say are not white lies. Some are the ones that they say to hide something from you. ; Don't you think that these aren't that bad, after all? I mean, it's high time we open our minds a little bit to the male psyche and see the honesty in all the lies.
Why Do Men Lie about Stupid Things?; Yes, men lie about the silliest things. But, they do it because they are simply scared of your reaction. Yes, we women tend to get all interrogative if something seems a little bit dicey. What do you do to avoid that? Well, you need to build trust in the relationship. Let him, know that there is nothing that he can do that will make you hate him, if he tells you about it honestly. Preach by practice. Tell him everything, even things he may not like. Tell him that you love him and that you trust him with your honesty. It works, when done genuinely.
Why Do Men Lie and Cheat?; Cheating and lying can be a bad combination. Why do men cheat on women? For several reasons. All you have to remember, is that it is not always the man's fault. If you keep a constant distance from him, or if you never trust him, then you are driving him into indiscretion. So, if his behavior makes you suspicious, it is best if you sit down and sort it out with him. Either ways, cheating, in my opinion, is unacceptable, the rest is your decision!
However, many men simply cheat and lie because they can. In such a case, the ball is in your court. You can forgive him and carry on with your life, or you could not forgive him and get revenge, or you could end the relationship and move on with life. Either ways, the best way to know why a person does what he does is by asking him outright. Do not jump to conclusions and judgments, it will more often than not, turn out to be wrong.
Women are blessed with intuition and a whole load of intellect. Use what your momma gave ya and have fun with some of the lies that the men say!!
¿Por qué los hombres mienten a la mujer